this is quin and yes i know of him and you should always think of yourself first then others
Alright, that makes a little more sense.

And you're right, you should think of yourself first, but even this is dependent upon your belief system. I do so enough to ensure I am capable of helping others-but this is primarily because I'm a lightie. I enjoy helping those around me-it gives me motivation in this life.
I see it as a balance. Help yourself before you help others, but only in moderation on both counts, and with good judgement.